Don’t just focus on deficiencies, because always feeling lacking in what you don’t have now will only make you unhappy. Learn to be grateful for all the things you already have. This will make you appreciate life that will indirectly make you happy.
Being aware of your own shortcomings and what you don’t have can indeed spur the spirit to live your life. But, if this is overpowering yourself, it will have an adverse effect on your own life.
Comparing your life with others will never end and will only make you more unhappy. Especially if you are always jealous of the successes and achievements that others have gained, it will only make you more unhappy.
Try to learn to be grateful for everything you get, even for small achievements. Instead of envy, you can make other people’s success as motivation to reach the target you want.
In living life there are many different opinions and views that you will meet. Learn to deal with it with a spacious heart. Remember that you cannot always impose your will on others. Because what you consider good is not necessarily good for others. Try to appreciate differences and be open in accepting suggestions.